This is the time of year where everything seems to be going
so fast. It’s an acceleration to Christmas day, then New Years Eve, and then
beyond. That’s why it’s so important that we slow down this time of year. When
we get to the gym and find someone is using our machine or when we get to the
store and find that the lines are long, irritation can arise. But these things
are only a problem if we are in a hurry.
I’ve been told that in Russia for one to two weeks this time
of year almost everything closes down. Because everything is closed people have
no choice but to slow down and enjoy time with their loved ones. In many places
things may only close for a day or two around the holidays so we have to make the
choice to slow down.
When we slow down something truly amazing happens, we relax,
we notice beauty, we become more kind, and we enjoy ourselves. But perhaps the
most amazing thing of all is that we can get almost as many things done in the
same amount of time. Frantic activity rarely leads to efficiency.
In addition to being more efficient we also perceive things
differently. The lines move about the same at the grocery store, but because we
slow down we don’t feel like they are going too slow. People may be on our
favorite equipment, but because we slow down, we remember there is a new
workout routine we’ve wanted to try out.
Being around others who are in a hurry can be contagious so
when you find yourself feeling frantic, try out these tips to help you slow
down -
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Take a few deep breaths
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Reconnect with your heart
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Take a walk, run, or bike ride (alone if that’s
what you need)
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Leave extra space in your day by planning ahead
or managing expectations
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Let go of how things are ‘supposed to be’; being
calm and relaxed is a better than any perfect dish, ritual, or present
When we are in a hurry nothing seems possible, our lives
contract, and we rush from one thing to the next. When we slow down our lives
expand, many things are possible, and we greet each new activity with a fresh
and excited mind. Make the choice to slow down; it’s the best way to spread
peace on earth and good will to men and women alike.